No, I don't drink, for seriously.Anu Jhajj
I wrote this in one sitting, as the words came to me. Whoever reads this should know it did not come from an angry place, and it is not meant to criticize one person's decision over another's. I wrote it in hopes that people might see what it is like to choose a path conflicting with something implicit to our society. No, I don't drink, for seriously.
No, I have never had a drink
Yes, I have as much fun as you do
No, it's not because my religion makes me
Yes, I decided this myself
Yes, I have a social life
No, I don't need to loosen up
No, I don't need to try everything once
Of course it's not easy going against the grain...
you don't see a smoker assuming everyone else smokes and pressuring those who don't
you don't see a smoker boasting about how much tar must be in in their lungs
you don't see a smoker pushing more smokes on friends who have had enough
you don't laugh and share the story when a smoker falls down coughing
Why is alcohol so different?
I'm always hearing why I should be drinking, it's time you hear why I don't:
I like my brain cells just where they are
I don't want to turn to a substance when I can't cope, or even if I just want to unwind
I feel the pain of lives lost, families broken, and people destroyed
The pain of addiction
But it's just one drink right? I need to loosen up, right?
Go on and have fun, make your own decisions, do your own thing.
But stop giving such a hard time to those who choose differently.
And why, why push more drinks on friends who don't want any more?
It's not the way to be a polite, or a good friend, it's stupid.
There are different ways to drink.
You do your thing and I'll do mine.
Even then, when I tell you I don't drink,
I have to justify my decision to be allowed to stand by it.
I'm left to feel like something is wrong with me.
I respect and I don't judge, now stop judging me. (
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