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Thursday, October 29, 2009

Waiting for Justice


A great article in Time magazine on the Sikh pogroms of 1984. Kudos to Jaskaran Kaur from Ensaaf for the strong quotes.

Here's the whole article:
India's 1984 Anti-Sikh Riots: Waiting for Justice
By Mridu Khullar / New Delhi

On the surface, the line of two-room dwellings on a dusty street in west Delhi appears little different from thousands of other roads in India's crowded capital. The paint flakes off buildings' walls and the grass grows in parks that haven't been mowed in months. Kids play cricket in the street, fruit and vegetable sellers push their wooden carts through narrow lanes and women busy themselves with housework and cooking. What sets this impoverished community apart is one remarkable absence: men.

C-block, or the "widows' colony," as it is more commonly known, is where Surinder Kaur, 65, lives today after she sold her house in Sagarpur and moved next door to her sister Harjinder Kaur, 57, a few years ago. Every morning, the women have tea together in a two-room house, where the only picture is of a newlywed Harjinder and her husband, killed 25 years ago in one of the darkest chapters in Indian history. (See pictures of India's tempestuous Nehru dynasty.)

The widows' colony in Tilak Vihar is a cheaply built and neglected cluster of homes, which were given by the government to hundreds of women and their children who survived what have become known as the anti-Sikh riots of 1984. But as the grim event's 25th anniversary nears at the end of this month, crime, addiction and prostitution have taken root in what was supposed to be a survivors' safe haven. Residents say this is because of the damage to the mental health of children who were witness to their parents' and siblings' murders and who grew up in impoverished homes and weren't given any medical help — physical or mental — for their problems. "They'll slice a blade right through you if they know you're new to the area," warns Harjinder. "Even the autorickshaw drivers refuse to come here."

Devender Singh, 26, an unemployed drug addict whose father was killed before his eyes in 1984, says his brother was murdered in the colony a couple years ago and that it's likely he'll meet the same fate. "We're all thieves and addicts here," he says. "When you get no work, what else will you do?" The lawless attitude of the young people is an echo, residents say, of India's broken justice system. The young people saw no punishment for the crimes committed against their families, so they see no justice for the crimes they'll commit in the future.

The anti-Sikh riots were four days of mayhem in the northern parts of India, particularly Delhi, in which armed mobs set fire to Sikh homes and businesses, killed unarmed men, women and children and attacked gurdwaras, Sikh places of worship. The violence, which left almost 3,000 people dead, was a reaction to the assassination of the country's Prime Minister, Indira Gandhi, on Oct. 31, 1984, by her two Sikh bodyguards, Beant Singh and Satwant Singh. Earlier, in June, Gandhi had approved Operation Bluestar, a mission to flush out Sikh separatists who had amassed weapons in the Golden Temple in Amritsar in northern India. While the operation was considered a success, almost 500 Sikh civilians visiting the temple that day were killed by the Indian army, though unofficial reports suggest numbers much higher. (Read TIME's coverage of the riots' aftermath.)

Surinder Kaur was at her home in Delhi when the rioters broke in. Diwali, the biggest festival of the season, had just ended, but she and her husband had left the lights around the house up. In just 15 days, their eldest son was getting married, and the celebrations were already getting under way. Then a mob of more than 2,000 people descended on their middle-class neighborhood, killing dozens of Sikh families and burning alive Kaur's soon-to-be-married son and husband with petrol from the family's motorbike. "It's like a cyclone came through our lives and ripped it apart," she says. "We've never celebrated another festival since."

Initially a response to the death of a beloved leader that unfolded mostly in the poorer parts of west and north Delhi, the events of the days that followed became much more organized, spreading strategically across the city, including upper-class and diplomatic neighborhoods. Eyewitnesses have repeatedly told stories of the police looking on as rioters murdered and raped, having gotten access to voter records that allowed them to mark Sikh homes with large Xs, and large mobs being bused in to large Sikh settlements. "On Oct. 31, there was primarily looting and arson attacks," says Jaskaran Kaur, co-director of Ensaaf, a U.S.-based nonprofit that works in the predominantly Sikh state of Punjab. "On Nov. 1, you see that everything happened very methodically — there were simultaneous attacks following similar patterns where the gurdwara was often attacked first before the residences and properties, and the death squads were able to make extensive use of state infrastructure like buses and trains." Despite this, the army was not called in until days later. "We saw what they did and who did it," says Surinder Kaur. "We saw the local politicians marking up our homes. At the time, we didn't know what it was for."

But while 10 official commissions have been set up over the years to investigate the events of the four days, only a handful of minor convictions have been made, and not one major politician or police officer has been convicted. "The justice system is based on evidence, and people are scared to come forward or are persuaded not to," says political analyst Amulya Ganguli. During the riots, Kaur of Ensaaf says the government "worked to destroy a lot of the evidence about who was involved with the killings by refusing to record [first information reports] or name those that family members mentioned." (See why fewer Sikh men in India are wearing the turban.)

Instead, in March 2009, India's Central Bureau of Investigation filed its final report on the riots, clearing Jagdish Tytler, one of the accused who had major political ambitions and was announced as a candidate for Indian parliament elections in 2009. Tytler had been accused of leading mobs of thousands during the riots, and though he was named by several eyewitnesses, he was ultimately exonerated because of lack of concrete evidence. Hundreds of Sikh protesters gathered outside the courts afterward, and Sikh journalist Jarnail Singh threw a shoe at Home Minister P. Chidambaram during a press conference in April, following his remarks on the matter. The Congress Party was forced to drop Tytler, and another accused, Sajjan Kumar, as candidates for the election to protect its image.

Outside of India, too, Sikhs have been making a consistent effort to get more international attention to the lack of accountability for what happened. In the 2005 elections in Britain, the country's 700,000- strong Sikh community banded together to make it a campaign issue. For the 25th anniversary of the event later this month, advertisements by Ensaaf — showing an old woman wiping away her tears, with the words, "25 years ago, our loved ones were burned alive in front of our eyes," and in the next line, "Why has India, the world's largest democracy, denied us justice?" — are scheduled for the month of November in the San Francisco Bay Area's transit system. (See pictures of Congress Party leader Sonia Gandhi on the campaign trail in 2004.)

But many Sikhs in India seem to have been quick to move on. While there is still a large community waiting for justice and, in some cases, compensation, the deep distrust that once existed between the community and the Congress Party has dissipated. The party has been in power in Punjab for many years, and party chief Sonia Gandhi — daughter-in-law of Indira Gandhi — helped by formally apologizing to the Sikh community in 1998. In September, India's cabinet also extended a $1.5 million rehabilitation package for victims. "It doesn't exonerate the Congress, but by and large the Sikh community agrees that it was a one-off thing and there is no anti-Sikh philosophy in any political party and [the incident] was not a result of a clearly articulated worldview, as it has been with Muslims in the country," says Ganguli.

Many, however, feel that more compensation — which was insufficient and delayed to begin with — is not the answer. Jaskaran Kaur suggests starting with a truth commission, a special prosecutor's office and a wide range of services, including rehabilitation of family members, physical and mental services and acknowledgement of the event in the form of museums, history books and convictions. "Apologizing doesn't amount to much for family members unless the state is going to acknowledge its role in the massacres and then take serious steps for accountability."

For Surinder Kaur, it no longer matters. The safe haven provided by the government made her community unsafe a long time ago. "We haven't allowed our children to mix with anyone in this neighborhood," she says of the widows' colony. "One day, they'll get out of here, and there will be a new beginning."

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

What I Play - Gurpreet Chana


A great article on Exclaim.ca on the Tabla Guy himself, Gurpreet Chana.
Gurpreet "The Tabla Guy" Chana combines a deep knowledge of Indian classical music and a lifetime of Canadian musical experiences into a unique approach to percussion. He is both a spellbinding solo performer and a consummate collaborator. Raised in Hamilton, now residing in Toronto, Chana's tabla education began at age three. He relates a time-honoured musical starting point, albeit with specific cultural resonance. "I used to bang on pots and pans and my grandfather had the foresight to say 'let's get this kid a tabla.' One day my parents went down to Gerrard St. (in Toronto's Little India), picked up a tabla and cut it down to half the size. I still have it at my parents place." Chana muses that there may have been an ulterior motive: the Sikh community in Hamilton was so small at the time that his grandfather may have been recruiting him to accompany his family's weekly hymnal congregations.
Read the full article here.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Sikhs in Argentina

I'm surprised that there's Sikhs in Argentina (and even a gurdwara), but I guess I really shouldn't be.

Monday, October 19, 2009

I'm Going To (Watch) The Olympics!

Great news from BC. The RCMP’s Vancouver 2010 Integrated Security Unit has ok kirpans at Olympic venues.
VANCOUVER — Sikhs will be permitted to wear ceremonial daggers less than 7.5 inches in length to Vancouver 2010 Winter Games venues, the RCMP’s Vancouver 2010 Integrated Security Unit announced Thursday.

The dagger, called a kirpan, is one of the articles of faith that all observant Sikhs must wear.

To be admitted to Olympic venues, Sikhs wearing the kirpan must notify security personnel before being screened for admittance. The blade may be no longer than four inches and must be worn beneath the clothing, secured in a sheath. (Read full article here)

Diwali Tragedy In Calgary

A sad, sad Diwali story from Calgary.


Calgary crosswalk fatality raises safety questions

Alderman to look into crossing lights


BY GWENDOLYN RICHARDS, CALGARY HERALD
OCTOBER 19, 2009 6:45 AM

Members of the Calgary Police Service traffic unit investigated a fatal accident at 64th Avenue NE and Martingrove Drive NE Saturday night. A male pedestrian was hit while crossing the road in a marked cross walk. He was pronounced dead at the hospital.
Photograph by: Colleen De Neve, Calgary Herald
CALGARY - Manjit Pohar was only steps from home when his life was cut short Saturday night.

The 52-year-old was walking home after attending celebrations at the Gurdwara for Diwali--the festival of lights -- when he was struck by a car while crossing at a marked pedestrian walkway around 8:30 p. m.

The yellow house he shared with his wife, four adult children and two grandchildren is only a few metres away from the edge of 64th Avenue N. E., which he was crossing when he was killed.

As his loved ones mourn the loss of the kind and helpful man, the alderman responsible for the area where the crash happened said he will look into the possibility of installing a lighted crosswalk at the intersection, which has been the site of other pedestrian collisions.

"This is something that has caused me to say,'We need to look into this and do something immediately if we can,' " said Ald. Jim Stevenson, who spoke with Pohar's family on Sunday.

He said he has heard of previous collisions at the site and will have his staff compile pedestrian and traffic counts for the crossing. He also said he will see if a lighted crosswalk is already on the list of priorities and whether it can be moved up.

"It's a very busy road," Stevenson said.

In March, a man in his 20s was left in life-threatening condition after he was hit by a westbound car at the same crossing.

Gurinder Dhanoa, who lives a few houses down from the T-intersection, said there was another crash three months ago when a pedestrian was hit.

"We can prevent these accidents if they install pedestrian lights," he said.

Dhanoa and his father-in-law were about to head over to the Dashmesh Culture Centre to watch the fireworks Saturday when he saw the emergency vehicles and small crowd gathered by the crosswalk.

As he moved closer, he could see a turban on the road, a lone shoe and a plastic bag containing prasad--holy food given out by the Gurdwara. Another few metres east, he saw the fatally injured Pohar.

"I can't forget his face. It's so hard," he said.

Pohar had decided to walk home earlier than the rest of the family so they could stay and enjoy more of the Diwali celebrations.

When they arrived home a short time later, they saw all the flashing lights.

But it was only after they went inside and discovered Pohar was not at home that they began to fear the worst, said family friend Sony Sharma.

Police said one vehicle had stopped at the crosswalk and was waiting for Pohar to finish making his way across 64th Avenue when an eastbound car driven by a 23-year-old man passed the stopped vehicle and hit the man.

The investigation, which will look at whether speed, drugs or alcohol are factors in the crash, is still ongoing.

Pohar was rushed to hospital but died of his injuries.

Only metres from the scene, family and friends gathered Sunday to remember him.

The muffled sounds of grieving could be heard from the living room of the home Pohar shared with his wife and four children--daughters Gurdeep and Sandeep and sons Gurpreet and Harpreet--Gurdeep's husband and their two children.

Pohar and his wife moved to Canada from India four years ago after their eldest daughter, Gurdeep, sponsored them.

His daughter, Sandeep Pohar, said her father was always helping the entire family, sending money back to relatives in India and supporting his wife by working as a cleaner in a downtown office building.

"He was so kind," she said.

"I can't get my dad back," she added, eyes welling with tears. Link

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Sikhi Sidak Na Javai – Bhai Taru Singh Reviewed

Sir Javai Te Javai, Mera Sikhi Sidak Na Javai
If I lose my head, so be it. But I must not lose my Sikhi.

After 16 months of tremendous effort and hundreds of thousands of dollars in spend, the Vismaad team brings us their fourth animated Sikh film, Bhai Taru Singh. I’ve blogged about the film before and about Bhai Taru Singh’s legacy. Now having had the privilege of watching the film last weekend, I’d like to share a few thoughts.

In years past, during the quickly cooling evening hours of dusk a Sikh child would huddle up next to their grandmother for the warm not only of her body and but also her captivating stories. Night after night, Beji would weave together real life tales of Sikh courage and bravery, instilling a sense of intrinsic pride, faith and determination that would provide a foundation of strength for young Sikhs in an unfriendly world.

But things have changed. Hectic schedules, disconnected families, ubiquitous technological distractions, and language issues have made these kind of life moments a rare occurrence.  Whereas the Sikh panth has relied heavily on, and benefited from, its rich oral traditions, the current lack of intra-generational transference is a major concern. What are Sikhs without their history? Who else begins every supplication to the Creator by remembering and reflecting on their entire history? However, the Ardas we recite daily is only shorthand summary of our history, so what relevance does it hold, if you don’t actually know why we say charkrian de chare, aarye naal charai gaye, or sikhi kesan suasa naal nibhayi? So it is into this vacuum that a movie on Bhai Taru Singh attempts to fill a void.

First and foremost, this film is for Sikhs and specifically Sikh children. Obvious but worth pointing out. This film is not for the New York Times to review nor is it produced for an international film festival. It is made for Sikh families to sit down together in their family room and to watch on TV. Not as another feel good Disney film or Harry Potter epic, but as a vehicle to transmit the Sikh DNA from one generation to the next. This film is meant to be watched by kids over and over again to the point that they memorize the story, dialogue and soundtrack. And in doing so, there is a hope that the Sikh values of resilience, sacrifice, humility, and fearlessness are imbued by the film viewer. 

While I had grown up on the story of Bhai Taru Singh, I’d never really lived it, meaning I’d never put myself in moment. However, through the course of film I found myself amazed that this is based on a real life true story of a Gursikh who, at every instance, submitted to will of God. In a world where Sikhs are more interested in chhhak ke vandana (eating and then sharing), Bhai Taru Singh demonstrates how one lives up to our mantra of vand ke chhakana (sharing and then eating).

So congratulations are in order to Bhai Sukhwinder Singh and the Vismaad team for a great effort. Their films just get better with each release. The animation is improving, the voiceovers are clearer and the editing is crisper. Yes there’s still some slight holes in the plot (tied up hands in one scene are unexplainably open to hug in the next) but there’s nothing that takes away from the key messages of the film. The real winner is the soundtrack with very memorably sung shabads and a dhadi vaar by Tigerstyle that’s been stuck in my head for days.  Its definitely worth picking up the audio CD in addition to the DVD.

Speaking of the DVD, before the screening Sukhwinder Singh took the opportunity to introduce the film. He also spoke of the issues they’ve had with piracy crippling their sales. Just that very day, he’d walked into the major all-things-Sikh store in Toronto area and found all of his DVDs for sale on the front counter for a mere $7 each. Great product placement, but unfortunately they were all counterfeit. When he asked why a dharam parchar society would basically sell stolen merchandise, he was given the answer that people aren’t willing to pay the full price and that they were doing the community a service. Sukhwinder Singh was quick to note two things. Firstly, if this store keeps doing his particular type of service, there isn’t going to be many more films made and more suspiciously, if they are doing a service, why aren’t they charging the $2 it takes to make a DVD rather than the $7 being charged. Things that make you go hmm..

Regardless, if you can buy your family tickets to the Gurdas Maan show, or if you’re wearing fancy shoes or designer jeans, you can afford to pay for an ORGINAL DVD. The panth needs more Sukhwinder Singhs, more Vismaads and more films like Bhai Taru Singh. But you only get what you pay for.

US prejudice: 9/11 fears put Sikhs on scare list with Muslims

Sikh people have been targets of intolerance, especially after 9/11 when the anti-Muslim sentiment in the United States was growing. According to a recent poll, 40% of Americans admitted to have a prejudice against Muslims. Oftentimes because of Sikhs' turbans, they get mistaken for Muslims and end up becoming targets for hate crimes, work place discrimination, and racial profiling at airports. Today, because of their turbans, Sikhs still can't enlist in the U.S. army and in some states they can't teach in public schools.

Thursday, October 15, 2009

WSO Announces Hiring of Full Time Legal Counsel

WSO Announces Hiring of Full Time Legal Counsel

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

Ottawa – (October 13, 2009): The World Sikh Organization of Canada (WSO) is pleased to announce the appointment of Balpreet Singh Boparai as full time legal counsel. Balpreet Singh is a graduate of the University of Ottawa Law School and was called to the bar in 2009, after articling with a well known human rights law firm in Toronto.

Balpreet Singh has been volunteering with the WSO for the past several years and brings sound legal knowledge, advocacy skills and a keen interest in the area of human rights to the position. In the past, Balpreet Singh has worked with WSO to pursue a complaint with the Canadian Human Rights Commission against Via Rail for their restriction on the kirpan. The complaint was settled and as a result, Via rail changed its policy in order to accommodate the kirpan. Balpreet Singh is also active in the local Sikh community and serves as a director at the Institute of Gurmat Studies in Brampton.

"The addition of Balpreet Singh to the WSO team will help to expedite the handling of many human rights issues that the organization handles for the Sikh Community," said, Gurpreet Singh Bal, WSO President.

"Balpreet Singh joins our team of legal volunteers who work tirelessly to advocate on behalf of not only Sikhs, but other religious minorities in Canada as well. His appointment will increase WSO's ability to advocate and take legal action on behalf of the over 400,000-strong Sikh community in Canada" said, Gian Singh Sandhu, WSO Senior Policy Advisor.

WSO is a privately funded human rights organization that does not receive any funding from any level of Governments. For the past 25 years, WSO has been advocating for the Sikh community and has been involved in a number of legal cases across Canada at all levels, including the Supreme Court of Canada.

The WSO is currently involved in a number of cases involving the Sikh articles of faith, including acting as intervenor in the R v. Badesha appeal in Ontario, in which the right of Sikh motorcyclists to wear a turban is being considered.

The WSO urges all Sikhs to donate generously so that we can continue our human rights and legal advocacy work. The World Sikh Organization of Canada (WSO) is a non-profit organization with a mandate to promote and protect the interests of the Sikh Diaspora, as well as to promote and advocate for the protection of human rights for all individuals, irrespective of race, religion, gender, ethnicity, and social and economic status.

For more information, please contact:

Website: www.worldsikh.org

Email: info@worldsikh.org

OR

Balpreet Singh Boparai (Legal Consel WSO) Tel. 416-904-9110, Email: balpreetsingh@worldsikh.org

OR

Amanpreet Singh Bal Tel. 905-567-1795, Cell 416-677-1528, Email: asighbal@gmail.com

Landmark cases in which WSO has acted as intervenors, include:

Multani v. Commission scolair Marguerite-Bourgeoys (2006 SCC 6)

This landmark 8-0 decision by the Supreme Court of Canada affirmed the right of Sikh students to wear the kirpan while attending school. WSO acted as an intervenor before the Court.

The League for Human Rights of B 'Nai Brith Canada v. Syndicat Northcrest et al. [2004] 2 S.C.R. 551

WSO acted as intervenor in this case in which the Supreme Court of Canada considered the right of Jewish condominium owners to build succah huts on their balconies during the festival of Succat and considered the appropriate test to be applied when considering a claim for freedom of religion;

Grant et al. v. Attorney General (Canada), 11 9951 1 F.C. 158 (F.C.A.)

WSO was granted intervenor status in this case which considered the right of the RCMP to amend its dress code regulations to allow a Sikh officer to wear a turban while on duty.

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Navdeep Bains on Rick Mercer Report (RMR)

Our friend, MP Navdeep Singh Bains was on the Rick Mercer Report, Canada's version of the Daily Show with Jon Stewart. Being made fun of by Rick Mercer is a great privilege for Canadian politicians, so congrats to Navdeep, I guess.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

City of Calgary approves kirpan policy review

Good to hear that the City of Calgary's going to take a look at their kirpan policies (or lack there of). Now the trick is to make sure that they actually do a proper, objective, insightful review.
CALGARY - Council has unanimously approved a review of the kirpan policies at civic facilities after the Telus Convention Centre shut down a concert in August featuring a Punjabi star.

A report to council on the policies is expected before March.

Ald. Diane Colley-Urquhart, who raised the issue, said there are varying accounts of what happened at the Aug. 2 evening event. Police were called to disperse the crowd at the Gurdas Maan concert after some Sikhs carrying kirpans weren't allowed in.

"We're not pleased this incident happened and we don't want to see future incidents happen," she said.

At the concert, convention centre security refused entry to a number of men wearing kirpans, a ceremonial dagger worn by some observant Sikhs.

When the situation heated up, the convention centre made the decision to cancel the concert, which was being attended by people of all ages. Police were called.

At the time, convention centre staff said the kirpans, some of which had blades of more than 10 centimetres, were considered weapons and violated the building's safety policies. (Link)

Mr Singh and Bono

A great videeo of a Sardar on stage with Bono during their U2 360 Tour at Fed Ex Field Washington DC (from 29 Sept 2009). I'm sooo jealous.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

SikhRi's New Website


Check out the new website for the Sikh Research Institute.
The Sikh Research Institute aims to develop a principle-driven community by protecting the core and enlarging the resource pool. Our efforts are divided into three focus areas: Training and Development, Global Awareness, and Strategic Solutions.

All programs and projects strive to develop and share a positive Sikh perspective. The Sikh Research Institutes strengthens individuals and builds communities by enhancing leadership skills and endorsing community action. All development initiatives attempt to weave diversity, multiculturalism, and acceptance into the fabric of civil society.

Mission
The Sikh Research Institute’s mission is to facilitate training and development while
inspiring Sikh values, create global awareness of Sikhī, and deliver solutions to the key challenges faced by the Sikh community.

One Panth: United In Remembering 1984

Looks like there's a great initiative being launched in Toronto this week. Its called One Panth and their first event will be around commemorating the 25th anniversary of 1984. Here's a video that they've just released:



A little about the group:
As Sikhs, the time has come to put our differences aside. Rather than focusing on what divides us, we need to find our common bonds. The One Panth movement will work with all willing individuals and groups to organize initiatives that bring the Sikh community together to support a common cause. The 1984 event is hopefully the first of many such endeavours.
Here's what they've gotten planned so far:
What - Bring together the entire Sikh community, as one Panth, to remember and reflect on the tragic events of 1984

Why - With so much that divides the Sikh community, let’s use the collective tragedy of 1984 to spark unity and collaboration

How - An afternoon or evening of movies on 1984 being screened interluded by performances from local Sikh artists

Where – In a Brampton location that is easily accessible to Punjabi-Sikh population

When – November 2009

Who Can Attend – ALL Sikhs, regardless of caste, education, occupation, wealth, language-preference, politics, location or religiosity. The event is FREE.

Who Can Help Organize – ANY Sikh who is willing to work together for this common cause.
I'm looking forward to more details on the event.

Missing Teen Karamjit Kaur Found In Indiana

Who knows what the full story is the Reno Police Department has located missing juvenile Karamjit Kaur in Merrillville, Indiana. Here's a video clip

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Every Time We've Had Our Babies, People Have Almost ... Commiserated

Just in case the rest of the world didn't know what a sorry state Punjab was in with respect to its gender imbalance, there has been two headline reports from Canada's biggest newspapers in recent weeks. The first deals with the problem in India and the second talks about how the problem has been exported to Canada.

The first from the Globe and Mail entitled "Land of the Rising Son", examines how India has responded to the decline of female births. There's two sad learnings from the article. One is that Punjab is still in the worst position with respect to male-female gender ration and the second is that an individual's level education has does little to reverse generations of discrimination.
The richest neighbourhoods in the country – the wealthy farming areas of the Punjab, the middle-class areas of Mumbai and other cities, and here, the leafy neighbourhoods in the south of the capital – have the biggest gaps.

High-caste families in urban areas of the Punjab have just 300 girls for every 1,000 boys, researchers financed by Canada's International Development Research Centre (IDRC) reported last year. In South Delhi, it's 832 girls born per 1,000 boys; in the state of Haryana, home to the high-tech hub of Gurgaon, it's 822. (In “normal” circumstances, demographers expect to find 950 to 1,000 girls born for every 1,000 boys).

Conventional wisdom has long held that as India develops – as more families struggle their way into the middle class, more girls go to school and more women join the work force – traditional ideas about the lesser value of girls will erode. The incentive to abort them would fall away.

Instead, the opposite has happened, and the reasons – and solutions – have government and activists stumped.

“These educated, well-off women, who still want sons – this is really the crux of the problem and the government has not caught on to it,” says Farah Naqvi, author of a major study on attitudes to “son preference.”

“Yes, you have these very modern women today – you see them in spandex at the local gym … but it's a complicated modernity. It's two worlds these women are straddling.”

Women with a Grade 10 education or higher are four times as likely to have a second child who is a son, after a first daughter, as are women who are illiterate. “These educated, employed women are earning very well, and yet they prefer a son,” says N.B. Sarojini, head of SAMA, a health organization that tries to help women resist sex-selection pressure. “Why are rich women worst? If you have a male child, you are more valued in society – it's true in any class.” The crucial question, she adds, is why that idea has proved so immutable.
The article also speaks to economics of raising a female in India.
And then there's cold, hard economics: In the words of a Punjabi proverb, raising a daughter is like watering your neighbour's garden. Girls leave home at marriage, taking whatever skills or assets they have accrued. And the practice of dowry, once restricted to the highest castes, has been adopted at all levels of society – as a sign of social status – and is nearly universally practised even though it was outlawed in 1961. (Like the law against sex selection, this one seeks to alter a widely accepted social practice, and there is little enforcement – in fact, many feminists argue, government is reinforcing the practice by offering cash to unwed girls on their 18th birthdays.)

In aspirant middle-class families in south Delhi today, a typical dowry provided to a groom's family can include a sports car, a large apartment, all its furniture including high-end electronics, and thousands of dollars in clothing. “Increasing materialism … and the emphasis on obtaining consumer lifestyle products has exacerbated the problem of dowry,” Ms. Naqvi says.
So what happens to all these men who can't find wives?
The shortage of potential wives is a subject of frequent coverage by the Indian media. And there are alarming stories – particularly from Punjab and Haryana – of human trafficking. Lower-caste women are bought in states such as Jharkhand, where the sex ratio is roughly equal, and then sold for a few hundred dollars in higher-caste communities.

To top it all off, Punjabis have brought their desperate obsession for baby boys to Canada. On the front page of Saturday's Toronto Star, there's an undercover report of a man selling pills to Punjabi women that promise an 85% chance of having a boy. To top it off, the salesman is actually an editor of the Ajit Weekly newspaper that advertises the services.
On a windswept street in a bustling industrial area on the outskirts of town, a stocky man in a white shirt and dark jeans pulls out three Ziploc bags containing red, brown and silver pills.

Take two red and brown pills each day for a week, he tells the woman who says she is nine weeks pregnant, and your baby has an 85 per cent chance of being a boy. Then he demands $750 in cash.
Magic pills or not, the trend of more girls than boys in South Asian (and Punjabi) parts of Canada is clear.
Canada does not collect statistics based on ethnicity at birth. But statistics here, now home to more than a million Indo-Canadians, many from Punjab, also show a somewhat skewed gender ratio. According to 2006 census figures, nationally there are 932 girls to 1,000 boys under age 15 in the South Asian community, compared to 953 girls to 1,000 boys in the general population.

The numbers in the South Asian community in the Toronto area become much more skewed: 917 girls to 1,000 boys in the Toronto Central Metropolitan Area. Broken down further, it shows 904 girls to 1,000 boys in Mississauga, and 864 girls to 1,000 boys in Brampton.

"That means the sex-ratio is 50 per cent higher for under-15 South Asians as compared to the general population (in the Toronto CMA)," said David Foot, professor of economics at the University of Toronto and a demographics expert. "I would say that is concerning."

That's a huge gap proportionally, says Myer Siemiatycki, a professor in immigration settlement studies at Ryerson University.

"In the Punjabi and South-Asian population, the numbers show a clear tilt in favour of men while it's the opposite in the national population (where overall there are more Canadian women than men). There's no question something significant is happening in the under-15 age group."
Some significant indeed. If education doesn't help back home and moving to the West isn't helping us here, what then? Where do we go from here? Where are we going to end up?

Hopefully the story of the Bedi family gives us hope.
Prabhsharan Bedi was born on a snowy March night 13 years ago.

While the baby and mother, Rupinder Bedi, were still in hospital, Randhir Bedi, the father, bought sweets and distributed them to family members and friends. When the mother and her baby girl returned home, the couple invited almost a 100 people for a celebration.

Over the next 12 years, the couple welcomed three more daughters – and celebrated in similar fashion. Manmeet is 10, Binwant is 8 and Japneet will shortly turn 3.

It is not rare but unusual for a Punjabi family to have three or four daughters.

"Girl or boy, it never mattered to us," says Randhir. "But people are funny. Every time we've had our babies, people, even family members, have almost ... commiserated."

Randhir, 39, who lives in Mississauga and works in Woodbridge, says even his own parents, who live with the family, have dropped subtle hints "that it'll be nice to have a boy also. They love the girls but think there should be a boy too."

The couple, who immigrated in 1991, laugh it off and tell their parents how brilliant the girls are and how they will make the family proud.

"It's the way our culture is – everyone believes a family is incomplete without a boy," says Randhir.

"Rupinder and I don't believe in it and we tell people that."

Teenage Sikh Girl Goes Missing In Reno, Nevada

In a tragic story out of the US, 16 year old Karamjit Kaur went missing on Wednesday night while she was out riding her bike. Its even more concerning as she'd only been in the US for eight months and had just learned to ride a bike.
All help is needed to locate Karamjit Kaur,16, a Punjabi Sikh teenage girl from Reno, Nevada who went missing on Wednesday evening while riding her bike. She had arrived from India eight-months ago and recently started learning how to ride her bike. On a hot Wednesday evening around 6:30pm Karamjit went outside in her black top and blue cotton pajamas to ride her bike and never came back home. The Reno police suspect foul play. Karamjit’s bike was found a quarter of mile away from her house by a skateboarding park.

Karamjit is approximately 5’7” tall, 140 pounds, with long black hair and brown eyes. She has a scar on her forehead, and her left canine tooth is longer. She was last seen wearing a black v-neck short-sleeve t-shirt, bright blue cotton pajama bottoms and black flip-flops. Her family is devastated and praying that she returns home soon.

The Reno Police Department is asking for the public’s assistance in locating her. Anyone with information relating to this incident should contact the Reno Police Department at 775-334-2115, Secret Witness at 775-322-4900, or www.secretwitness.com. All calls to Secret Witness remain anonymous, and Secret Witness pays rewards for information on all crimes. (Langar Hall link)

Friday, October 2, 2009

Surjit Bhullar's Music With A Message

With so much nonsensical Punjabi music coming out these days from around the world, it was refresshing to see the latest tracks from Surjit Bhullar deailing with real issues. While the songs are dharmak (religious) in nature, the messages are quite contempary.

The first track (and my favourite of the two), Duniya, laments to God about what direction the world is headed. Specifically, he talks about female infanticide, corruption and drug abuse.



The second track, Naam Khumari Nanaka, asks for strenght of faith. The full chorus, Naam khumari Nanaka chari rahe din-raat, translates into May you remain absorbed, day and night in the intoxication of Naam.



Compared to the relatively mediocre, forgettable duets that Surjit Bhullar has put out in the past, these are both great songs with pretty decent videos. I hope they do well commercially and convice other Punjabi singers to adjust their focus as well.

Thursday, October 1, 2009

Calgary Kirpan Update: E-Mails of Support Needed

Further to the Calgary kirpan issue, here is a copy of the Notice of Motion that Alderman Diane Colley-Urquhart is bringing forward to the city Council. As part of campaign, she is looking for e-mails of support for her motion. So please email her at Diane.Colley-Urquhart@calgary.ca and voice your opinion on this important issue.

NM2009 – September 29

KIRPAN POLICIES AT CIVIC ENTITIES

Alderman Diane Colley-Urquhart

WHEREAS 2500 people attended a Gurdas Maan concert on Sunday, August 2, 2009 at the Calgary Telus Convention Centre (CTCC);

AND WHEREAS the Kirpan (ceremonial sword) has religious significance whereby baptized Sikhs are obligated to wear the Kirpan at all times;

AND WHEREAS the CTCC management determined not to permit Kirpans to be worn into the event and directed security guards to search those entering for Kirpans;

AND WHEREAS this discriminatory action significantly slowed the crowds from entering the venue with the concert starting, and leaving nearly 500 attendees waiting in line and ticket holders both inside and outside the venue becoming increasingly agitated;

AND WHEREAS pay-duty police officers were concerned with the volatility of the incident and for public safety with families and children in the crowd, and conveyed their concerns to the head of Security at CTCC, with CTCC management and Security then deciding to shut the concert down;

AND WHEREAS the City of Calgary has adopted the CCMARD Charter that includes ten principles by which we measure our progress toward eliminating discriminatory practices both within the City of Calgary and within civic entities;

NOW THEREFORE BE IT RESOLVED THAT Administration conduct a review of Kirpan policies in City of Calgary civic entities and, in consultation with them, report back through the SPC on Community and Protective Services no later than March 2010, with recommendations to avoid similar incidents in the future.

Alderman Colley-Urquhart

Send Calgary Alderman A Thank You Note!

CALGARY - An alderman is calling for a review of the policy on kirpans at civic facilities after an "embarrassing" incident at a concert by a Punjabi star at the Telus Convention Centre last month.

"It quite simply is not OK," Ald. Diane Colley-Urquhart said of the convention centre's decision at the Aug. 2 event to refuse to admit Sikhs wearing the ceremonial dagger. "It gave, in my view, a black eye to the city of Calgary."

She will ask her council colleagues to back a review of the policy surrounding kirpans at civic entities.

"It really sends a negative message to the community," Colley-Urquhart said, calling it discriminatory. Calgary Herald
In a hyper security-sensitve post-9/11 world, its not often that we have a politican stand up and make such a bold statement in support of the Sikh kirpan, and indirectly, freedom of religion in Canada. However, Alderman Diane Colley-Urquhart has done just that in calling for a review of the policies impacting the wearing of kirpans in civic institutions.

Politicians usually only hear about what they've done something wrong, and I suspect many Canadians will not take her comments kindly. So let's send her a note of appreciation, thanking her for her comments and encouraging her to continue fighting for the rights and freedoms of all Canadians.

You can contact Alderman Diane Colley-Urquhart through email or through her website.

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